Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you brussels gay dating all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. It's the issue when you're dating someone but nothing official then they ask if you are seeing anyone else.
Sometimes the person may ask if you're just seeing anyone else sometimes they'll ask if you're having sex with someone else. It's 1 of those topics that really don't have any real set of rules on how you should answer. The person asking the question is not someone you've commited to. But on the other hand there may be potential for a serious relationship with the person in the future. Or is it none of their business?
I would be interested in knowing others think about this matter. Some will say it's nobody's business since you're not committed others will say to be honest up front or not have sex with other person. I'd like someone to be honest with me if I asked, I've asked before and have been lied to. The way I look at it, if someone lies to me and I find out later, I'll leave, simple as that.
When you'll have to decide then and there how you feel about that person. Yes, I'm seeing other people but I would like to stop and be with you only if you like this woman enough. Yes, I'm seeing other people and I would like to keep my options open if she is not good enough for you. And than you have owe your decision. STDs could be cured with antibiotics. A temporary lapse in judgement should not result in a death sentence. All these people you have no commitment with--well, they have no commitment with you, either.
So, are you willing to risk your own health the way you are risking theirs? Sex with one woman, dating another? And NOW you're confused on how to behave? If you have a FWB, and are dating a 'potential' I would think the logic is clear. If you are interested in this 'potential' developing into a physical relationship, perhaps you should concentrate on the 'potential' only for a while.
What is that, a whole few weeks out of your life to see if she reciprocates??? IDK, maybe you're different, but if I want to develop a long term relationship with someone I'm seeing, I won't dating someone while sleeping with someone else 'getting my fix' with another man. However, if the question does dating someone while sleeping with someone else up the truth is the best option. Bottom line you're going to respond with what matches your own core values.
Personally, I'd not be caught in a situation where the honest answer was difficult or damning. But I know there's lots of folks here on POF who think it's perfectly normal to "play" multiple contacts all at the same time trying to find out which one is the bigger and better catch. I'm here looking for quality, not quantity, so I only work with one person at a time. Less exhausting that way. I know you think this will blow your chances of bagging whoever you are with and you will but why start a relationship with a lie?
Dating someone while sleeping with someone else guess I am just old fashioned that way. I used to have fwb when I was younger and I learned the hard way from that and. I would rather be in a relationship with someone I care about than a one night stand. That has never crossed my mind; that is, sleeping around and expecting to keepmy secrets away from somebody who'd rather not get a disease or date a promiscuous human. It's why I refrain from dating such people and I do make that expectation known.
Of course, this wouldn't stop somebody from lying to get what he wants from me; but, I have been fortunate enough to get away if any such indication presents itself. Thats why there are so many single people on this site in my opinion. Many want instant fidelity, and a relationship. We can only be true to ourselves first. I personally choose to have sex with one person at a time.
I just like it that way. That doesnt mean I wont go out on a date with someone else if there isnt a commitment. Im always honest about it too, which isnt always easy. There is no right or wrong answer here, if an exclusive situation hasn't been talked about, you can do whatever you want. If you think that there may be potential for a serious relationship, then you have to make the dating someone while sleeping with someone else of not dating other people and seeing where it goes.
I bet the person you intend sleeping with behind the other persons back would probably give you the elbow and quite rightly so. I just hate men who are so cowardly and withhold such information purely for their selfish desires. You would be possibly putting both these person's health at risk just for your own selfish pleasure. I may be biased because i just cannot stand cheating scumbags. No ones memory is good enough to be a successful liar.
I'm one who will not multi-date but if there is someone out there that comes along dating someone while sleeping with someone else we both share a strong enough connection that could lead to commitment, I would certainly want to know his intentions and if he is dating and screwing someone else. That's my sign to take a step back and keep looking. And that's probably why POF and any other internet dating site will probably be just a one-time meet and greet and nothing more.
I'm not interested in being part of some guys rotation or stable of women. I'd rather not know, so I don't usually ask. Back when I was dating casually, I made it clear that I was keeping my options open. I don't think anything more specific needs to be said than that. But if someone were to dating someone while sleeping with someone else up ask, I would be honest. And from what I have seen, the best players ARE honest.
They just have the charm to keep women hanging on the line anyway. Imo it's the cowardly losers who lie about it. It's the issue when you're dating someone but nothing official.